Physical violence in relationships is surprisingly common nowadays and always has been completely unforgivable.
There will always be that deep, down sadness that will never go away, that the person they love, that they thought loved them and would never do anything to bring them down, hurt them. That feeling won't disappear. You can act like act like nothing has happened and it is all the same later, but that genuineness and pure adoration for the other person can never be completely replenished.
It's like a piece of paper. Once you crumble it up, you can straighten it back out, but it will never be normal again. The broken pieces and wrinkles will always be there. Overall, physical violence, especially in a relationship, is absolutely and completely unforgivable. It hurts and detaches a person for a lifetime.
Another point to make is that if they've done it once and "temporarily" lost control, there is no telling that they won't do it again. So if you are in an abusive relationship, or even if they've only done it once, you need to get out. Even if they promise it'll never happen again, that is not healthy and you need to leave. The physical and emotional pain received is just not okay under any circumstances and never forgivable. Never stand for physical violence. Get help or assistance in any way possible. It just isn't worth it.
- First off, it physically pains the other person.
- Secondly, it is morally wrong and pains the other person emotionally, never being the same again.
There will always be that deep, down sadness that will never go away, that the person they love, that they thought loved them and would never do anything to bring them down, hurt them. That feeling won't disappear. You can act like act like nothing has happened and it is all the same later, but that genuineness and pure adoration for the other person can never be completely replenished.
It's like a piece of paper. Once you crumble it up, you can straighten it back out, but it will never be normal again. The broken pieces and wrinkles will always be there. Overall, physical violence, especially in a relationship, is absolutely and completely unforgivable. It hurts and detaches a person for a lifetime.
Another point to make is that if they've done it once and "temporarily" lost control, there is no telling that they won't do it again. So if you are in an abusive relationship, or even if they've only done it once, you need to get out. Even if they promise it'll never happen again, that is not healthy and you need to leave. The physical and emotional pain received is just not okay under any circumstances and never forgivable. Never stand for physical violence. Get help or assistance in any way possible. It just isn't worth it.
If you are in an abusive relationship and need to get help:
Call: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
Website: www.thehotline.org/
Call: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
Website: www.thehotline.org/